What's In the Way, Is the Way, by Mary O'Malley states "Life is not a series of events that happens because you did your life right or wrong. It is an intelligent unfolding that is always speaking to you, waking you up." The waking up process moves from life happens to me, to life happens by me, to life happens through me, to life happens as me (I am, the Father are One.) Within this progression of consciousness, we move from having "someone the matter with us" to choosing how we will be with whatever is happening. In this talk, hear how reality is that life, however it happens, is always for us.